Though I live simply, I’ve had one vice that’s been strong since my 20’s – buying books. When our family of three moved into our current home in 2009, we came with 23 bookcases – some 4’x8’, some 3’x6’, some smaller – but all filled. Some had albums in them, yes, albums, but mostly books. As my daughter has grown, so has our book collection. I wish I’d counted all the books I’ve released since then, but I’m certain it’s in the 1000’s. Yet, I’ve also continued to buy books.
One of the surviving bookcases is housed in my dining room, and I’m in the process of redoing it. By redoing, I mean re-evaluating what’s there, moving things out, creating space for what I want more of in the next 12 months. Writing is one of those things. Since my bookcase falls in the creativity section of my dining room in feng shui, it’s critical to be clear and deliberate with what’s here…if I want to manifest my desire to write more. For me, this is an area that continues to get jammed up.
While I was creating a “writing section” in one area of this bookcase, it was easy to see nothing was moving in until something else moved out.
I’d done it again.
I’d pushed aside a big vision and filled it with lots of tiny obstacles.
Things. Stuff. Obstacles to space.
I stopped the process and just sat down where I was. I started to write to get clarity on my next steps. I didn’t want to just move books around and “make room”. I needed a new way of being.
This new way of being resulted in declaring a one-year book buying ban. To hold myself accountable and to document it, I’m sharing my journey, with the hope this adds some value to you, and you can benefit from my process.
My intention for the ban is to use the resources I have. If I’m tempted to buy something, I’ll shop from my shelves. Even though Amazon Prime and I are tight – you know, on a first name basis kind of thing – I could create my own amazon.
Instead of recreating my own Amazon, I’ve decided to create a “Little Free Library”. Have you seen them? They’re those adorable little “mini-tree-house-looking” wood houses that hold books. You place it on your property and wa-lah, instant library! I’ve been wanting to do this for years, and never made time for it. While I’m just starting the research on it, I’m super excited to start! I’m seeing them popping up all over locally and I love them. More on this soon!
Lastly, in addition to the book ban, I’m also declaring a one-year ban on buying courses – online or otherwise. (Only exception is additional coaching certifications already on my radar and accounted for.) I began 2017 committed to 3 trainings, and through the year, I’ve added at least 7 others that I can recall. Everything looks good to me. I have this insatiable appetite for learning and growing. But right now, I’m letting what I know and what I have be “Enough”.
In our world of consumerism, of always looking for the next biggest thing, it’s easy to fall prey to having too much. Also, in a world where there’s so many struggling to eat, or pay their mortgage, or find a job, having “too much” feels far too wasteful to me.
Look for updated posts on the Little Free Library and updates on the bans!
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xo
Chris
I love your commitment to cleaning up whats in your way of creating what it is that you truly desire. The temptation that ensues us along the journey of growth can also take over quite quickly as we have such a thirst for knowledge stemming from how awesome it make us feel when we are turning on those lightbulbs. It makes us want to gobble it ALL up. I also get so excited to drink from the very large cup of offerings on line/books. And like you making a choice not to stop learning, but to drink from the cup of knowledge that we already have and marinate in it for a while. I like you idea of a 1 year ban, it is not saying you can’t have it, it is just a reminder to savor all that do already have. xoxo Tammy
Oh, Tammy, I know. We are enough – it’s all about choosing to be enough, as we are, right now. I still have your Quote “Fear reminds me that a shift needs to occur” on my dresser, and under one of my vision boards so I see it every day. Sheer brilliance! love to you! xo
Love this, Chris! In one move, I gave away about 400 books. It was traumatizing and freeing. In my last move, I “moved” another 250 or so into the garage cabinets. Just in case. Ha. But my office feels so organized with the 100 or so that are left. It’s a process. I know what it’s like to be on a first-name basis with dear old Amazon (and now Vromans.com). Ahhh. Heaven help us. Love your take on the whole thing! xx
Oh Linda, YES! Release can be, as you say, “traumatizing and freeing”, both at the same time. There’s almost a holding of the breath as we release, and then a beautiful exhale once we feel that freedom. Thanks for sharing your process! And many apologies for my delayed response! I don’t know how I didn’t see this before. xo
Gracias por tomarse el tiempo para comentar! Me alegra saber que su experiencia fue suave en mi sitio. Muchas bendiciones para ti. 🙂